Sunday, June 18, 2017

Best of Friends

Have not been writing for a long time, but suddenly, the urge of writing is coming back.
THis morning, in the whatspp group with so called our best friends grouping, the question on this suddenly arises. What is the definition of best friend, best kind of friendships?

For one, if you only meet once every where is it considered one?
When you occasionally meet up once, do you consider that as one?
ANd whenever you meet up, you are in rushing manner, and going for another appointment, where you do not have actually arranged the time or give priority to other friends who had come from afar, is that considered one.

For me all those might be part of it, but it is simpler.
When you need your friends, they will find time for you, to be with you, to talk to you, and spend time with you, irrespective of how many years you guys have been with each for how long.
That is the real friendship...

After 30 years, this wound is finally out, and once topic is mentioned, it is closed for once and for all.

I always believe if you plan your time well, there is always a way to meet and spend time with your friend, that is if you have the will and treasure the friendship. If there is a will, there is a way (mahu seribu daya tak mahu seribu dalih).

Happy Sunday.

Choong
BM

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